When I scroll through my social media feeds these days, I’m struck by the sheer number of inspirational quotes and feel-good idioms making the rounds. We seem to love them—maybe even need them. One in particular has stuck with me lately. It may sound a bit old-fashioned, but I think it’s more relevant now than ever: Stop and smell the roses.
In other words: slow down. Take a beat. Enjoy the small, beautiful things.
Today, I’d like to invite you to reacquaint yourself with one of life’s simplest and most satisfying pleasures, a rich, dark, fragrant cup of coffee. Not the kind that comes from a sealed pod and a push of a button. I’m talking about the old-fashioned kind. The kind you make with care and anticipation. The kind that smells like heaven and tastes like a reward.

Let’s talk stovetop coffee.
In a world overflowing with brewing options—from high-tech espresso machines to single-use pods—it’s easy to forget the simple joy of a stovetop Moka. But to me, it’s still the best, cheapest, and most delightful way to enjoy coffee at home. There’s something almost sacred about the process: filling the base with water, spooning in the grounds, screwing the top on just so, and waiting for that telltale gurgle that signals the brew is ready.
A Moka pot produces a concentrated, full-bodied coffee with a golden crema that rivals anything you’d get from a barista. Want it lighter? Just add more water and less coffee. Craving a cappuccino? Add warm milk or froth it up for your own homemade café moment.
Coffee, like tea, comes with its own rituals and history. From Ethiopian coffee ceremonies to your grandmother’s stovetop pot that seemed to live permanently on the back burner, coffee has always been more than just a drink—it’s a pause, a comfort, a quiet moment of connection with yourself (or others).
Personally, I take an artistic, almost meditative approach to making coffee. I’d never give up the small thrill of opening a fresh bag of ground beans and inhaling that first rush of aroma—deep, earthy, exotic. It’s intoxicating in the best way.
There’s real joy in waking up to the scent of coffee wafting through the house. Some people can’t imagine starting the day without it, and I count myself among them. A well-prepared cup of coffee is a sensual experience—pure ambrosia, crafted to awaken your senses and ease you gently into the morning.

Of course, if you’re a true coffee devotee, you know not all coffee is created equal. Coffee pods and pre-ground blends may be quick and convenient, but they rarely deliver the depth and complexity of freshly ground beans. Once you’ve tasted the difference, there’s no going back.
Like wine, coffee comes with body and nuance—light, medium, or full-bodied—with flavor profiles that range from nutty and chocolatey to citrusy or floral. Flavored beans take it even further, infused with natural oils from herbs, spices, or nuts to create something truly special.
So if you’re ready to elevate your daily ritual, it may be time to retire the pod machine and embrace a more tactile, sustainable, and ultimately satisfying experience.
Because sometimes, it’s not just about the caffeine. It’s about the ritual. The moment. The pause.
Chuck away your Nespresso and Nespresso lookalikes or any pod coffee maker if you want to experience the pleasures of java to the fullest and for a more sustainable lifestyle. Rituals are an integral part of many pleasure-related activities, and the ritual of preparing a delectable cup of coffee is just as important in enhancing the overall enjoyment.
beautifully said and true….Italy does have varied coffee culture..social rituals that are not easily found here…well certainly not in Newmarket…Tim Hortons are on every corner….eeeeek…really must get to London ..xoxoxo trust all is well Maddy Darlin…xoxoox miss you and your brilliance xoxoxo
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